Tuesday, May 3, 2011

99 probems

I have problems.  We all do.  Some people are good at dealing with their problems, recognizing how to get on with their lives, and still accomplishing what they have set out to do.

I am not one of those people.  Maybe that is another problem I have.  Or maybe it is a problem that I think it is a problem.  What is for sure is that the fact that I believe I am not the type of person who can accomplish what I have set out to do is a problem.  A huge one.  Especially in light of the Big Days approaching.

What follows is a stream-of-consciousness list of all that vexes, worries, perplexes, and otherwise weakens my self esteem and confidence in passing The Test.

  1. The pass rate for California is low.  It was 68% for first timers last July.  32% of us did not pass last year.  That sucks.  I know a handful of intelligent, accomplished, and overall good people who failed.  And yes, I know that the former Dean of Stanford Law School failed, and Jerry Brown and Pete Wilson.  Still.  Failure is scary.  
  2. My bank account is running on empty.  I worry that I am going to be in the middle of studying and not able to pay my rent.  Or my bills.  Extra loans are not an option for me.  I mean that; it is not as though the option is even open to me.  Yuck.
  3. "The only people I know who failed had a death in the family . . ."  An immediate family member of mine has a life threatening illness.
  4. ". . . or did not follow the BAR/BRI schedule."  The BAR/BRI schedule is intense.  I do not know how plausible is it for me to actually be able to complete every task assigned.  No idea.  Hope I can do it, but I worry that I can't.  Especially considering that I can hardly bring myself to study for finals currently.
  5. A support system.  I do not feel like I have one.  It is a problem in and of itself that I personally do not believe I have a support system.  It is another problem if one actually does not exist, as this is something that doctors often require before one can undergo major surgery.  Without a support system, the likelihood of success and recovery post-op for patients is lower.  As of late, I have felt some push back from some friends.  Things were not as they seemed, and now I have no one to talk to as far as that front goes.  My family . . . we are going through a difficult time, and the worst has been brought out in some of us, while others have their own problems to deal with.  My Man . . . likes to think he is supportive, and he is.  But I find it difficult to talk to him without a filter.  I can't really even rely on myself.  My emotions are running at a record high, and I myself have become unpredictable, moody, and overall miserable.  Ugh. 
  6. I lack physical fitness.  Fitness is important.  One needs endurance, health, stamina, mental sharpness, and mental strength in times like these.  My single "up side" is here:  this is something I can control.  I just need the will and discipline to do it.
  7. I have no post-bar job opportunity.  See #2.  I fear I will need to add "Fry Chef" to my resume.  
  8. IRAC is stupid.  I get it.  I understand it's usefulness.  But sometimes, it just does not work.  Rule...okay, that's the easy part.  Analysis...plugging facts into the rule.  Conclusion?  I have no freaking clue what the actual result will be.  Issue?  There are A LOT OF ISSUES.  Which ones do you want to know?  The big ones, the little ones, the little ones within the big ones?  And why do I have to tell you this.  I have made it this far hating IRAC and I do not plan on discontinuing that.  I pray that I somehow learn to love and embrace IRAC in the next two months.  Please!
  9. Nightmares.  I have not had a good night's sleep in a couple of weeks.  I keep having nightmares.  In order to get through the next two months, a good night's rest is important.  And I know my hypersensitivity to all of these problems is an issue that impacts my sleep.  Still.  I can't sleep!  Help!  Nightmares need to end.
  10. I have a hard time getting up in the morning.  See #9.  Sometimes, I simply choose not to wake up.  I just sleep all day, because I do not care about getting up and accomplishing things.  This needs to stop.
  11. This list will go on.  Stay tuned.
Pity me.  Or empathize.

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